Curiosity so often kills the cat. The curiosity of what would happen if we just stare this car down instead of running away from it like we usually do, means the demise of the tabbies. In love so often the same can be said. How many times have we text someone when we shouldn't have. Or rung a partner up to see what they were doing. And even though they were not doing anything wrong we got the wrong end of the stick.
Curiosity kills the cat and so often we succumb to the unknown. We desire to know what is going on in our partner's lives when we are not around. What they say about us in life and how they really feel about us. There have been many incidents in relationships I can recall of friends and family where they have found something in a text message they do not like. They have gone down their partner's phone and found messages they generally do not like.
What we don't know does not hurt us. It may be a crafty concoction of hiding the truth for someone but it is a true statement nonetheless. So when you get that urge to go down your partner's phone don't. And if you are just seeing someone, or in the beginning of a relationship do not text them to see what they are up to. Less is more at times. And at the start of a relationship especially so. You need to make sure that you are able to stand the test of time.
Ensure that you do not go down your partner's phone. If you think they are texting someone you wouldn't approve of there is not a whole lot you can do about it. If you trust them not to do anything then you have to leave it at that. Or you will find out the hard way just exactly what lack of trust can do to a relationship.
The hardships and disappointments of betrayal and lies can ruin every relationship. But if you become curious and find something you don't like then how are you going to confront your partner about it. How can you let them know that you do not like it without coming across as not trusting them?
There is no way, is the answer to this, so you need to trust and give yourself the best chance of keeping your relationship together.
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